spent a lot of time here last weekend.
Artist wrangling for the annual photo at the Stutz Artists Open House (April 26-17, 2013). It’s the first photo I haven’t been in in six years.
I’ve gotten way behind on what was meant to be a daily photo post. Please forgive me. A lot has been happening in the last week or two which has prevented me from keeping up. The most time consuming was my work on the Stutz Artists Open House, which was held last Friday and Saturday.
If you’ve never been, it’s worth it.
Onward. Back on track.
My mom is a potter and she attends and sells work at local art fairs and farmers markets (her work is mostly for foodies). The above are things she makes. The below is a glimpse of the Indy Winter Farmers Market at the Indianapolis City Market.
I don’t really know what to say about yesterday’s events in Boston. It’s all being said – we’re sorry it happened, our thoughts and prayers are with the victims and the first responders and more. Then I got an e-mail from my friend Marg this morning with a link to a blog where her own thoughts were posted. THIS is what I want to say!
Personal Tragedy Meets National Tragedy: The Boston Explosions
A ViewPoint by Marg Herder
I arrived home from a business lunch today and did what I usually do. Sat down at my desk and clicked on the TV while pulling up my email. Today the TV came on muted; and without looking up, I focused on the twenty messages clamoring for my attention.
Immediately, I noticed an email from a dear friend. She had sent me the obituary of her father, who passed away yesterday. It was much sooner than it was supposed to be; he had been told he’d have several more months. But now, after just a few short weeks, he is gone, leaving an empty space here in this place we call our earthly home. I hit reply and tried to figure out what I could possibly write to her that would express my sorrow for the situation—and my love for her. I know that her family is forever changed. As they sit down together tonight at dinner, they are a different family than they were the day before yesterday. But I also know they will emerge from this personal tragedy even more deeply connected than they were before. Moving through this situation will require they reinvent their family by recreating the way they love and support each other. Their new creation will be rich and full, because they are beautiful, loving people.
In the midst of this, I looked up and happened to notice what was on the TV. It was the coverage of the unfolding tragedy in Boston, the explosion near the finish line at the Boston Marathon. I turned up the sound.
Personal tragedy meets national tragedy.
It’s too early to know exactly what happened at Boston, but I do know that the explosions will leave empty spaces in many families, in many lives. I also know that just like the day of the bombing in Oklahoma City, just like the day the planes were flown into the World Trade Center, this day will certainly change something about us.
I feel sorrow welling up from my heart and spilling out of me.
It is in these moments, the moments right after such tragedies, when each of us makes a decision about how we will respond. It is in this time of stillness, perhaps of shock, in which we set our course.
And let us be acutely aware, as we move through this situation, that it provides an opportunity to reinvent ourselves.
Will we respond with anger, casting about for some group of people to blame, someone to hurt with our words or actions? Or will we make the difficult decision to respond only with love, searching for ways to connect with each other as a people and support those affected, perhaps even directing our attention to creating a world of peace and equality where violence is never considered necessary to achieve an end?
We make this decision individually, and we make this decision as a people.
I will choose love.
I pray for love and healing to rain down on my friend’s family as they recreate life without one so dear to them. I pray for love and healing to wash over all of those who are suffering as a result of the tragedy in Boston. And I pray for the fullness of Divine love and healing to pour down on those who initiated the Boston explosions so that they will never again feel the need to cause the suffering of others.
Finally, and most importantly, I hope you will all join me in praying that our nation will be swept up in a great and miraculous current of love, refusing to meet violence with violence, instead standing shoulder to shoulder, arms around each other, taking full advantage of this moment to recreate the way this “One nation under God” responds to pain, tragedy, and loss.
Marg Herder is the Office Manager and Web Developer for EEWC-Christian Feminism Today. More of her writing is available on this website, as well as on her own website, margherder.com.